Motherhood: Comfort, Coffee & Chaos

(in that order)

Hi! I’m Sabrina

A southern California based mama of four. With 3 boys and one sweet (sassy) little girl my life is all about finding comfort (in clothes, food and books) and drinking probably too much coffee in the midst of all the chaos that my life brings!

I’m so happy that you’re here! Grab a cup of coffee (or reheat that one from this morning) and let me become one of my mom besties!

Twin Mama with her babies

Being a good mom doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice everything that makes you - YOU!

Mamahood

About the Blog

Here we talk about:

  • Motherhood: It’s hard enough to keep tiny humans alive so let me give you the tips and tricks that I’ve learned as a mom of four

  • Finding Your Passion: Just because you’re a mom doesn’t mean that you have to give up being passionate about something OTHER than your kids. Let’s find something that lights you up!

  • Recipes: Let me help you with some of my favorite meals that even my picky eater loves!

  • Books: Hands down this is one of my favorite forms of self -care. Reading lets your live a thousand lives in the span of one. I’ll give you all of my recommendations!

My Story….

If you had told 20 year old me that I would be a stay/work at home mom at the age of 33 with 4 kids my oldest being under 10 - I would have laughed hysterically! NO WAY! I wanted 2 kids max and I wasn’t going to be a stay at home mom.

But here we are! I’m married with four kids (twins!) and even though I had a general idea of being a mom - nothing can prepare you for the real thing.

  • The feeling of loneliness

  • Feeling like all you’ll ever be is someones waitress, laundromat, maid, chef etc.

  • Wondering what the best product is to use for diaper rash, eczema, thrush, allergies, cold and flu etc.

  • Trying to get some kind of green, grows out the ground food into your pickiest eater

  • Finding out your kid isn’t just quirky, but is actually Autistic.. And all the feelings of failure that come with that diagnosis

  • The mental load of all of that 👆🏻

I’m not an expert - nowhere near in fact. But I do like to think that I have some idea of what moms might be searching for out there. And when my sister-in-law said I should start a blog at first I laughed. I’m just a mom - no one wants to hear what I have to say….

But she reminded me of something - I’m not JUST a mom. I’m a woman who grew up in the 90’s and is now figuring out how to raise my kids in the modern world. I’m a business owner (did I mention I own my own Virtual Assisting business 🙈), I love to cook and bake for my kids (even the picky eater) and I will talk someones ear off about how reading smutty romance books helps me decompress at the end of the longest of days.

So here I am! A mom of four, business owner, baker, romance reader and chaos coordinator sharing all my best ideas, thoughts, opinions and more for any mom out there who is lonely and looking to connect! Most days I’m in leggings and a big shirt, reheating my morning coffee at least 3 times, sending funny reels to my husband and best friends, working while my kids nap and just generally trying to survive (and sometimes thrive) every day!